AdrianaGomez
Hey there, my name is Adriana, welcome to my hub! I strive to continuously bring you the most raw and sizzling dating tips and advice for singles like you to help you meet the most intelligent, outgoing, handsome men and drop dead gorgeous women.
For the past several years in addition to working in corporate America and managing several businesses, my other full time career has been dating. Yes dating as a career. You’re thinking, does this girl see it as a job? A clock in and clock out thing? Of course not! I actually really enjoy it.
For many years my lifestyle and businesses required me to travel a lot. One day I was in the west coast, the next day I could be sunbathing in Mexico and then jumping on a plane to New York City, where I will stay for a few months and then back again somewhere else. My life had been like that for several years; no real zip code to call home! So committing to a long term relationship had been a matter of choice not of unavailability of men to have one with. In fact, unlike the lonely salesman or working traveler that so many of you may be or know, for me, my travels are always fun and adventurous. There is never a dull lonely moment.
As you can see, I am not Gods Gift to men, I was not blessed with a 24inch waste, blue eyes, perfect skin… whatever else the media classifies as “attractive”. But because of what I know about people and understanding how to create attraction, I can be dressed up for a benefit dinner one night or sweaty and stinky in my gym clothes the other and get the same type of response and attraction from men, with or without the lipstick and heels! On several occasions I have striken up conversations with several men within an hour time span.
In fact, here is a very common scenario for me; I’m in NYC, wearing jeans and a plain tight tee and fresh blown out hair. As I’m walking minding my own business, within a 5 block radius I will be approached by several men and be asked out to go to dinners, shows, even some of their corporate events with them as their date. Is it a coincidence? I thought so the first few times it happened, but not after it was routine. Now everywoman gets cat calls. Com’on in this day and age and with men being as horny as they are, if you have legs and boobs you are going to be showered with some sort of “hey baby” or whistles especially during lunch hour! But for me it’s been different beyond the annoying cat calls, I officially get approached and spoken to and asked out on dates.
And let me share with you that the men that approach me are very handsome! In fact, I have met and dated all types of men. Beefcakes, older men, handsome younger ones, men of faith, highly successful business men, even professional athletes! I’ve been invited and attended red carpet events, Professional Sports parties, dinners at five star restaurants, visit beautiful estates, you name it. Like I said, dating was my 2nd career because I had to balance it all. I mean going out on these dates was like having another job. So I learned how to manage my dating life by booking up to 3 dates on a single day. I mean there are only 365 days in a year and 52 weekends technically that would mean only 52 single men to date, if I were to only go on one date on my weekends, clearly that wasn’t enough.
Despite the great men I met and amazing and exciting dates I had, there was a common theme of all the men I dated shared, that because of it they couldn’t have a chance to continue to date someone like me let alone build up an exclusive relationship with me. So I felt for the guys I dated because overall they had most things on the exterior going for them, but when it came to attracting and keeping a woman, they clearly striked out!
This mistake is not exclusive to men, but women do it too! For us women we tend to believe you have to be 34-24-34 and look like a Victoria Secret model, but let me tell you as a once “Fat Chic” that is not true. It truly is all in how you Approach and StrikeUp a conversation with someone.
I teach men and women how to become more successful at dating, but I believe in the old fashion traditions of:
The Man Should Be The Prowler, NOT The Woman.
Yeah I know there are women out there that are so proud of being “cougars” or “hitting up men” now to me that is low class. Now I’m not talking about the cougar that dates the younger guy, I am talking about the action of her going out there andscouting one! That’s like a woman putting herself on the meat market. Come on, I may offend some women that may be reading this, but again that is very trashy and such a huge sign of desperation which ladies…let me break it to you NOT attractive and will not get you a man on a long term basis.
And even as a man, you may think “it’s great to get approached by a woman” or that she is offering herself to be an easy target of a quickie hook up fling.
But Ask Yourself This:
Is that the type of girl you want to date?
Do you want to walk around with and have a girl that everyone in the neighborhood has had their turn with??
And Also Ask:
Do you want to have a quick fling with an easy slutty girl? Or with a woman of substance, that can deliver?
Exactly my point!
I have nothing against casual sex or one night flings, nothing at all. I am simply stating that how you get it and how it comes about has a lot to do with it. An attractive and powerful woman can and will drop her skirt and be topless with you on a first date, ifyou do certain things right.
So if you want to have a fling with a woman, then men you better be ready to be theprowler, not the hunted. And women, you better be ready to learn how to use your mouth not for those reason, but to learn how to converse and say all the right things that men just love to hear.
A successful, confident and hot woman is not going to be the type that goes after you, nope don’t confuse the slutty easy ones for real legitimate women. Those women, you must attract and approach them.
So I am here to offer my tips and advice from what I have experienced that works and offer my take on many more things that didn’t work and how you can master the art of attraction and dating, so you can have a sizzling and exciting dating life!
I believe the days of courtship are out. I believe the days of treating dating like it is this serious commitment thing is out. I believe the days of find one that is “just good enough” are out also! As a human race we are living longer. Becoming smarter, more successful and our expectations for living and happiness are also rising, so why not find the person whose chemistry most fits with you and more importantly why not have fun and enjoy woman as you find the one you want! I mean let’s face it, we are animals! Our animalistic instinct of sex and attraction no one can tame it, so instead of taming it, learn how to work it and attract the most attractive women you way!
I believe what you will find from me is the most innovative, helpful and raw material, any modern dater needs. I know you will find the information here essential to dating more attractive people. Feel free to browse thru the post, share any of the post you like on social media or with friends. I want to hear all your response and success stories. Follow me at @adriana_gomez or www.facebook.com/MsAdrianaGomez
